“No Sex With My Husband For Almost 2years, Can I Have An Affair?” – Lady Asks. See Advice

A Nigerian woman shared her marital woes on a Facebook group and the replies she got are quite interesting to read.

According to the woman, her husband hasn’t been intimate with her for 2 years though they live in the same house but they are living like a tenant. She said he married a new wife and brought her home and he now gives his undivided attention to his new pregnant wife and cares nothing for her. She’s now asking if she should have an affair with another man who is asking her out, seeing as she is tired of masturbating.

Read what the woman wrote below;


My husband has not touched me for almost 2years. Is it still wrong for me to look for someone else?

We are in a marriage of 15years with 3 boys.

Almost 5years ago he asked if I minded if he had a second wife.

I told him I did mind because I hate polygamous marriage setting but he had the second wife anyway and has had several several affairs since.

He hasn’t touched me since almost 2 years, we live as flat mates.

He wouldn’t let me leave with my kids because he wanted to stay in the house together with his new wife who’s pregnant and centre of his attention.

A man has shown interest in me, is it still wrong to have a physical relationship with him, even though I still live with my husband.

I haven’t had a physical relationship for 2years. I’m tired of masturbation and dying to be touched and pleasure by my husband but he never look at me!!

I wouldn’t mind to have sex with my husband but begging him to is not an option!!

I’m only in this marriage because of my children otherwise, I would have long gone!!

I need advice please.”

As expected, lots of advice were given to the woman and most of them will leave you shaking your head.

Read their advice below;

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1 Comment

  1. For u d woman to live in d same environment with d man mean that he still loves u with ur children.u need to strategies ur assignment well to know how to go close to ur hubby. second,third or fourth wives shouldn’t be a barrier to have access to ur love.but it is d hatred u people have for what ur Lord has enjoined u with. U sees marrying two wife’s has a sin but having one wife at home with many concubines outside has a legitimate act(turning d rules of God upside down).is like calling for war with creator.let’s all be warned

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